Today my coworkers and I went to happy hour after work. It's been a weird week so I'm glad we got to have a little fun afterward. As much as I always want to GTFO out of work, I really don't mind most of my coworkers at all. In all honesty, there's just such a few people who I would rather get away from right off the bat who give me a weird vibe. The new people are pretty cool and I'm just glad that some people who were a thorn in my side have left. The downside is that now that everyone is pretty cool, it makes it just that much harder to leave. It really shouldn't deter me from finding a new job, because I know that with most of them, I would keep in touch and still be really good friends with them. It's more of a forever kind of friendship with a number of them so I shouldn't be worried at all. They are really great at being supportive, so if I move on they totally understand. My group is there for each other and we have fun together. Really, I'm fortunate to have this group with me.
On a different note, one of them hasn't told me she's dating someone. To be fair, I didn't tell her about my stuff but that doesn't mean I wouldn't have. My stuff was over in 2 dates but hers has been going on for a while. I, too would have downplayed things until I knew for sure that I liked someone. She claims to not be that into him, and it seems like the way she talks about this to her friends seems like she's just not that into him. So why is she taking the bus for 2 hours just to watch a movie with this fool? And why isn't he going to pick her up or drive to the city to spend time with her? She isn't from here and doesn't have a car. And why did she take the bus instead of just rent a car? These are some of the questions we asked each other because it really doesn't make sense. You just don't take a 2 hour bus ride just to watch a movie with someone if you didn't like them. It's ok to like someone! At the same time, he should be going to her for the aforementioned reasons! Plus, although I'm a modern woman, I really don't mind having the guy chase me. The variable will be how I would pace myself in order to for him to catch me. Plus, if she doesn't like him as she claims, then why doesn't she just break up with him? It happens all the time. I know it's easier said than done but if you're just procrastinating on it, it's just gonna get worse.
The time you spend with people should be quality, so if you're not feeling it just don't waste your time! Life is too short to let the good stuff pass you by. I know I should really follow my own advice, but as I said, it's easier said than done. Maybe one day I will get my shit together and act. One of my prayers is for wisdom and courage; wisdom to know when to act, and courage in order to do it. I'm the type of person who needs to be mentally prepared for it, and once I do, I'm like an unstoppable train most of the time.
Well, here's to action, so I can spend the quality time doing what makes me happy.
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